Problem Solver
A hands-on prop can be very helpful to children who are trying to resolve a conflict because it helps them to manage the steps in the process. Note that this example uses clip art, but a prop that used photos of the children would be even better.
Once children are at the peace table, let them know they are to follow a certain process. The process might go something like this: (1) the children take turns speaking, (2) each child states his or her idea of what the problem is, (3) each child offers a solution, (4) they agree to accept one or more of the solutions, and (5) they offer one another a gesture of friendship to conclude the process (Southern Poverty Law Center, 1997). Creating a picture chart or other kind of diagram with a movable indicator can help move the children through the problem-solving steps. Also let them know that they need to consult with you only if they reach an impasse or if the solutions they offer aren’t reasonable and safe.